…the notches…
Dear mom and dad, if you are reading this please..stop.
Okay, now that they’re gone, we can touch on a topic that seems to always be on everyone’s mind. Sex. I was raised sexually modest and continue to hold certain beliefs. Sure…I enjoy sex, but growing up it wasn’t discussed.
At 24, I find myself conflicted between embracing the sexual being that I am while holding on to the girl who wears a chastity ring. However, because hook-ups are inevitable for the beautiful and young People of Hollywood. I tend to punish myself as the notches on my belt begin to grow. I want to find a man I can sleep with monogamously, but the men I meet are far from boyfriend (or marriage) material. So, do I wait until I find my prince charming in order to satisfy my urges as woman? If I do, I could be waiting 20 years. Youth is merely a small stop on our journey through life, so why waste it on…waiting? Is there a happy medium between embracing sexuality and feeling like respectable woman? I think so.
A man doesn’t have to be a boyfriend, but he can be a courteous and unselfish love who won’t leave me kicking myself, but thankful that I was able to experience such an intimate moment with him. Good sex is the kind you tend not to regret.
I have found that those who embrace their sexual side tend to have more confidence. Confidence creates power that allows success in various aspects of life.
So, go ahead, go have some good (and safe) sex.
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